Mar 15, 2023 | communication, emotional attunement, nervous system, relationships, spirituality
Internal distortions are the birthplace of entanglement patterns. Two people simultaneously clinging to ego and rejecting aspects of themselves creates the entanglement. When we are identified with our conditioned self, and continue to reject parts of ourselves, we...
Feb 21, 2023 | communication, nervous system, psychotherapy, relationships
Attachment styles were an adaptive response to the experiences we had in childhood. Intimate relationships engage our attachment system. The vagus nerve is responsible for nervous system regulation through the social engagement system (see Blog post:...
Feb 8, 2023 | communication, consciousness, emotional attunement, nervous system, spirituality
As we support our clients in repairing their nervous system, we tend to the somatic expression of their experience. We also support clients in creating mental clarity as they talk through their past experiences. The more regulated and clear a person becomes,...
Jan 26, 2023 | awakening, communication, consciousness, emotional attunement, intimacy, relationships, spirituality, transformation
Recognizing that your partner is not a separate other, you can meet them in the deepest and purest point of contact. Otherizing is the ego’s way of looking to people as finite. With judgment and assessment, we otherize our partner and simultaneously we feel small and...
Jan 19, 2023 | communication, consciousness, emotional attunement, intimacy, nervous system, relationships
Coregulation is an interactive process of supporting one another’s regulatory state. It is synergistic and mutually beneficial. Codependency occurs when we feel responsible for other people and have a hard time asking for what we need and knowing we matter....
