Jul 16, 2025 | communication, intimacy, relationships, transpersonal counseling
by Harmony Kwiker As therapists, we spend countless hours cultivating presence, awareness, and skillful attunement to our clients. In order to offer them a clear view of their thoughts, feelings, and patterns, we devote ourselves to becoming an accurate mirror of...
May 25, 2023 | communication, psychotherapy
This is Part 2 of Finding the Language of the True Self. In this video I’m going to be talking about how to find the language of the true self in your work with clients. This is not something that they teach in graduate school. Unless you’re in my class,...
May 25, 2023 | awakening, communication, relationships
This is a two-part video series on finding the language of the true self. I sometimes refer to this as the language of sovereignty, because when we find the words of our true self, the words that we choose support us in standing in our sovereign autonomy, our words...
Apr 24, 2023 | communication, consciousness, emotional attunement, psychotherapy, relationships, transformation
The contact boundary is where we meet and withdraw from our environment. Contact Boundary Disturbance is a “habit in which a response (to avoid contact) manifests in the individual’s personality even though the original circumstances under which the disturbance...
Mar 15, 2023 | communication, emotional attunement, nervous system, relationships, spirituality
Internal distortions are the birthplace of entanglement patterns. Two people simultaneously clinging to ego and rejecting aspects of themselves creates the entanglement. When we are identified with our conditioned self, and continue to reject parts of ourselves, we...
Feb 21, 2023 | communication, nervous system, psychotherapy, relationships
Attachment styles were an adaptive response to the experiences we had in childhood. Intimate relationships engage our attachment system. The vagus nerve is responsible for nervous system regulation through the social engagement system (see Blog post:...
