Apr 24, 2023 | communication, consciousness, emotional attunement, psychotherapy, relationships, transformation
The contact boundary is where we meet and withdraw from our environment. Contact Boundary Disturbance is a “habit in which a response (to avoid contact) manifests in the individual’s personality even though the original circumstances under which the disturbance...
Mar 15, 2023 | communication, emotional attunement, nervous system, relationships, spirituality
Internal distortions are the birthplace of entanglement patterns. Two people simultaneously clinging to ego and rejecting aspects of themselves creates the entanglement. When we are identified with our conditioned self, and continue to reject parts of ourselves, we...
Feb 21, 2023 | communication, nervous system, psychotherapy, relationships
Attachment styles were an adaptive response to the experiences we had in childhood. Intimate relationships engage our attachment system. The vagus nerve is responsible for nervous system regulation through the social engagement system (see Blog post:...
Feb 8, 2023 | communication, consciousness, emotional attunement, nervous system, spirituality
As we support our clients in repairing their nervous system, we tend to the somatic expression of their experience. We also support clients in creating mental clarity as they talk through their past experiences. The more regulated and clear a person becomes,...
Jan 26, 2023 | awakening, communication, consciousness, emotional attunement, intimacy, relationships, spirituality, transformation
Recognizing that your partner is not a separate other, you can meet them in the deepest and purest point of contact. Otherizing is the ego’s way of looking to people as finite. With judgment and assessment, we otherize our partner and simultaneously we feel small and...
